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Why not aim to increase income instead of cutting expenses?

A lot of the self-help books I read and listen to on audiobook stress the difference between a scarcity mindset and an abundance mindset. I’ll be the first to admit that I have grown up in a scarcity mindset: I saw things like money, recognition, resources, and abilities as limited … if someone else got … Continue reading “Why not aim to increase income instead of cutting expenses?”

Don’t change goals, change strategies!

While life is still far from perfect, I’m currently enjoying something of a renaissance in my life via my interactions and newly defined goals and commitments growing out of a personal coaching experience I’ve been gifted by a newly certified coach and old friend. Perhaps the greatest insight to grow out of my coaching experiencing … Continue reading “Don’t change goals, change strategies!”

Who will tell the story of your life?

Whether you’re a dedicated bachelor or going through a temporary period of soloism, there will come a day when you want to reflect back on these days – this present point – for better or for worse. The conundrum, of course, is how are you going to do so? What evidence will you have to … Continue reading “Who will tell the story of your life?”

“You are what you love, and not what loves you”

I’ve been listening to a lot of motivational speaker Kyle Cease’s work on youtube lately, and this has got to be one of my favorite videos. It’s applicable not only to people we love, but also those irrational things we love in secret, fearing judgement and becoming dependent on the opinion of others to rate … Continue reading ““You are what you love, and not what loves you””

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